You Kazan, Russia russian jewish dating have decided to find a Russian woman but not sure about age gap? 5-15 years difference is perfectly o. K. . You sure have a chance to meet a lady who will be 9, 10, 12, 12 and even 17 years younger than you. Many western men are astonished at getting correspondence from beautiful educated girls (doctors, analysts, accountants) 10-15 years younger than themselves. In the USA this disproportion in age is beyond reality. In your search for a Russian lady, it is not. One of the reasons is that women in Eastern Europe grow wise early, and having a relationship with a foreigner of their age is like having romance with a teen. Difficulties in life make people wise, the same way that years do. The age difference also gives them feeling of security.
On the other hand, you should not have unrealistic contemplations. If you are in your 50’s or 60’s, you should not hope to find a 20-year old girl. A lot of beautiful, wonderful in their late 30s or 40s would be happy to make your acquaintance; half of marriage agencies’ women clients belong to this age group, and you won’t have troubles with getting their kindness. This is realistic. Sure if you are very good looking, or very intelligent/rich/famous, you can make it with an age gap of 20 years or more. But it would be an exception, not the tradition.
Do not trust young employees of dating services who would to you that all women prefer older men. That’s not true. And what is more – that’s just a myth, a fairy-tale for credulous customers. If you really wish to make a real family you can’t forget about disproportion in age. Actually many ladies are o. K. With men who are 10-15 years older than they are, very seldom the age difference is up to 18 years. But do not make it more than 20 years or you sure will have problems with you young wife in future. If you can find her at all. Statistics shows that such marriages as a rule last not more than two years.
The other point is that acceptable age gap for Russian ladies is plummeting with with years.
The more foreign men seek partners in Eastern Europe, the better choice ladies have, the higher their requests get. Young girls are less worried about difference in age than older ones: a girl of 20 years old is normally interested in men up to 45, while a lady of 40 years old will usually bound her search to men under 54. Thus, if you are 49, a girl of 27 years old may find you a suitable candidate and a lady of 35 may think you are too old for her.
The point is, women in Russia want to have husband and children really bad, and this is the main reason making them to search for husbands elsewhere, since in Easstern Europethere is only 88 men for 100 females Statistics.
In Eastern Europe any unmarried woman who is older than 23 years old is called an “old maid”.
That’s why so many young women wish to start family-life really soon. They want to evade the blame. At 27 a young woman gets the highest press on herself about starting family-life and afterwards her parents and acquaintances begin to consider that she will never become a wife. As you can understand a girl under 27 has a stronger wish to get married than later. After 30 a lady is calm, she have society press anymore and she can concentrate on her own desires and aims. Only getting married is not the main object any more.
there are a few probable reasons why it looks like Eastern European women want much older husbands: • The dating agency told her that it will be much simpler for her to find an older man, and that she would be able to decide later if she wants to date him (servises need clients! ! ! ). • She did not put down age of a future partner in her ad cause she did not consider it to be important, or just forgot. • The ads are placed by women seeking “rich” men and targeted to the most efficient clients. In fact you should remember that there are REALLY FEW women who maybe DO wanta MUCH older husband. But still have an opportunity meet a younger woman, and even MUCH younger. Just be a realist and do not forget that 10-15 years disproportion is the limit, otherwise you will get troubles later.